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The Gravity of Sexual Abuse: Identifying the Symptoms

Tuesday, November 10th, 2009
A symptom of sexual abuse is often isolation and depression.

A symptom of sexual abuse is often isolation and depression.

This blog entry is about sexual abuse, especially in light of the recent Richmond High incident. There are many ways sexual abuse or molestation can manifest in both men and women. Here are some phrases to watch for that might be cause for deeper work:

- “I had sex when I was 4 with a female babysitter,” said by a male. If you’re male, and had “sex” before puberty especially by someone who was older or who had more authority, that isn’t sex – it’s abuse. As an adult, you may experience difficulty with intimacy and a tendency to sexualize your relationships.

How Do We Make Sense of Something So Senseless?

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

Gang rape in Richmond, California brings up profound questions

crimeLast weekend, a horrific incident happened outside of a school gymnasium. Around midnight on October 25, 2009, the Richmond police department got a call from a girl whose brother-in-law heard about the rape. The police followed-up and found a half-naked fifteen year old girl, beaten and unconscious, cowered underneath a bench outside her school. She was airlifted to the hospital in critical condition.